What I learned by hanging out with adults

Last year I spent a part of my summer with my uncles and some of them friends and observared somthing quite... curious let's say.
I found out that when comes to flirting/inicial fase of dating nothing really changes from when you're a teen to when you're an adult, and when I say nothing I mean literally nothing! As weird as it sounds, it's true, or at least it was for the couple that I was with. I' not sure I can really explain how I got this idea, but think it was mainly by their behaviour, like the giggles of the girl and all that actitude of I'm tuff and I need no one to take care of me, but at the same time that I would like you to take care of me act, you know?? and also the game of I know you talk with other girls so I'll pretend I'm ok with it and even say you look good toghether but everyone's like, yeah, that's not true. Now about the guy, the same stuff, if he's not sure about what to say he'll drop that whole thing about you having a beautiful smile or beautiful eyes or whatever and evan though you're all melted in the inside you'll just say "dude that's not how you'll get me", although you know it kind of is, and he will also still use any opportunity he as to touch you. Then when you're out with friends you'll be sure to tell them how you met but asure everyone that you're not dating, even though, truly, you're just trying to see if one of you oposes and says/do something about your relationship status.
So as you see NOTHING changes wich and therefore no matter what we'll always beteenagers when it comes to dating, to be honest, kind of disapointed me a little bit, but hey, it's good new's if you've not dated for a while and you're scared to get back on the game, just don't be because it's all still the same, and will probably be for years to come.
What do you think? Do you agree with me or think I'm totally mistaken and everything changes with age?
Please let me know :)
Rita x

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About 2014

Hello and happy new year!! 

Let's talk about the year that is passed. For me, 2014 was one the best years yet, I've done, learned and lived incredible things and was truly happy.

For me the year started with baby steps, I discover or rediscovered myself (I'm not sure wich), learned that if it is in deed my life I should be the one in control and do stuf because I want to and enjoy it. 

Anyway, the first few months were about that, and in the summer the really adverture began. Attended to 3 summer festivals (Rock in Rio, NOS Alive and SuperBock SuperRock) where I got to see the legendary Rolling Stones, two of my corrent favourite bands Imagine Dragons and Arctic Monkeys, the great Eddie Vedder and discovered a really cool singer named Jake Bug (these are just some names). Then, in Augest, went with my family (not just my parents and sister, as well as my untie and uncle, his mother and my grandmother) to Picos da Europa in Spain, we went in a 8 seat van and stayed in a little country house, it was awsome! I loved exploring all that zone with them, specially loved Bilbao were visited the Googenheim and a little seaside town, Lastres. Read my favourite book at the moment An Aboundance of Karherines by John Green.

It was a perfect summer spent with the right amount of family, friends, music and adventure. 

Then, in September started the biggest and greatest adventure, ERASMUS!! Me, a friend and a friend of the previous friend moved to Salamanca, the first week was absoluted ectick looking for a apartment, getting up super early walk for miles, do phone calls, being insulted by an oldman... But in the end we finally foud one. 

Then, a few weeks latter, in a salsa class, we met another portuguese girl with who we schelded a nightout (that end up just being us saying hi to her and her friend in plaza mayor to then go home because we ate too much in a ERASMUS buffet ahahah). We then met again with them and it was love at the first side, we became instant friends since then, so much so that they spend every weekend in our house and currently we're in Italy staying in a friend's of them house.

Basicly I couldn't ask for a better year and only can hope that the new one bring me so much joy as these one, although I'm a little scared, the first two months I have totally planed and specially February promeses to be awesome (we're going to Disneyland and Ruterdam) and also sad (because ERASMUS is going to end and we'll have to say at least a see you latter to our new great friends), for the rest of the year I don't know whar is gonna happen and to be honest I'm a little scared that things won't go as planed, but we'll see :)

What about you, how was your year and what do you expect from the new one?

Hope you all a great year with lots of joy, hapiness, love and adventure.

Kisses, Rita :)

Snowing Italy

Hello beautiful people!

Somehow I'm in Italy and it's snowing! What is my life? 

Today I woke up and the window was white (I'm staing in an attic) and I couldn't belive it, made everybody get up and go out side to feel it and take pictures. I can't wait to go out in the street!

Italy it's so beautiful, it reminds me of old movies, I'm loving it. And with the snow it must be even more wonderful! 

I'll leave a picture here that I took this morning.

Merry Christmas (it's a little late but today  I really feel like is christmas)!!

Kisses, Rita :)

And may the travels begin!!

And finally it is time!

The adventure has began, I'm currently in a bus to the aeroport of Madrid to in a few hours fly to Milan, to then go to Pavia and tomorrow go to Genova and back to Pavia in the 24th!!

The excitment is real, it's going to be weird being apart from my family for the holidays but I with friends like mine I'm sure that will be a christmas to remember for years and years to come :)

Happy holidays and I'll try to share a bit of these adventure here.

Kiss, Rita 🎄☺ 

Dance your heart off

Do you enjoy dancing??

Well, I do, very much and miss it even more... Want really bad to go back, although being no good at it, it makes me feel so good and happy, some times froustrated, but mostly great!

There's absoluttly no point in this post, I'm just in classe, missing dancing and feeling like writting it down ahahah

Hope your having a good day!

Talk to you soon,

Kisses, Rita :)

The overwhelming feeling

Hello there!

I’ve been feeling a bit overwhelmed for some time now, and wasn’t sure of what that feeling was about, it was just there. It wasn’t until a couple of days ago, when I was buying the tickets for some trips that I realized that I’m the happiest I’ve been in a long time, or even the happiest I’ve ever been!

Really can’t explain it, everything is simple great… I’m surrounded by wonderful people, leaving abroad and beautiful city, having new experiences, and I’m going to travel a lot in the next 3 months (which is one of my favourite things to do) I’m going to Pavia and Milan for Christmas and new year’s and in February  to Paris, Amsterdam and Rotterdam!! 

These are all good things, too good, I’m feeling so lucky and at the same time so overwhelmed by all these… The other day I just felt like crying (curiously at the same time I realized why I was feeling so baaah, when I was buying the tickets) because I couldn’t process it. I just don’t know what I did to deserve all these goodness in my life, but really hope that the tide of good fortune has come to stay.

Not a really interesting post, I know, but felt like sharing my feelings of the moment.

Hope you enjoyed it anyway,

Kisses, Rita J