Last year I spent a part of my summer with my uncles and some of them friends and observared somthing quite... curious let's say.
I found out that when comes to flirting/inicial fase of dating nothing really changes from when you're a teen to when you're an adult, and when I say nothing I mean literally nothing! As weird as it sounds, it's true, or at least it was for the couple that I was with. I' not sure I can really explain how I got this idea, but think it was mainly by their behaviour, like the giggles of the girl and all that actitude of I'm tuff and I need no one to take care of me, but at the same time that I would like you to take care of me act, you know?? and also the game of I know you talk with other girls so I'll pretend I'm ok with it and even say you look good toghether but everyone's like, yeah, that's not true. Now about the guy, the same stuff, if he's not sure about what to say he'll drop that whole thing about you having a beautiful smile or beautiful eyes or whatever and evan though you're all melted in the inside you'll just say "dude that's not how you'll get me", although you know it kind of is, and he will also still use any opportunity he as to touch you. Then when you're out with friends you'll be sure to tell them how you met but asure everyone that you're not dating, even though, truly, you're just trying to see if one of you oposes and says/do something about your relationship status.
So as you see NOTHING changes wich and therefore no matter what we'll always beteenagers when it comes to dating, to be honest, kind of disapointed me a little bit, but hey, it's good new's if you've not dated for a while and you're scared to get back on the game, just don't be because it's all still the same, and will probably be for years to come.
What do you think? Do you agree with me or think I'm totally mistaken and everything changes with age?
Please let me know :)
Rita x
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